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Love is like a tree planted by the rivers of waters.so i don't blame both of you, my only concern is why a man would want to stick with an older lady. In my defense, I would also like to add that I am in great shape and I don't look 41, I have been told I look in my late 20's early 30's many times before. So it's not like he is dating a hum drum overweight wrinkled up old lady!!
For crying out loud, we are no longer in the eighteenth century.
The world is changing, likewise culture, believe, patterns, people and a whole lot.
I don't think it is right or decent to categories people by their age or past.
Different people are searching for partners with different kind of attitude and mojo, I don't mind sticking up with a pretty lady that is 15 years older if she is as matured as I want and would deliver to me the dividends of marriage.
by Neesha (Baltimore MD) He hasn't introduced me to his family after 2 yrs dating. I am doing everything I can think of to let him know I love him and will always be there. Nigerians are workingand that gives me joy and it really strengthen me to wish to do more than this, I thought most Nigerians abroad go through hell to find a decent job, well maybe I should leave that to another thread The truth is, am dating a white girl aged 26 and our relationship is working fine and we had hope to get married soon Thanks for the responses, the good and the bad ones.
I have been learning how to make Nigerian meals and desserts. He is working, actually very hard working at two jobs. It's difficult understanding his thoughts at times because I am used to dealing with American men. Interesting story,how did that really happened , well love might have made them loved each other, but is the love pure,because there are previous stories about a man who married a white woman but was killed after five month of good luck This is great,it is one of the best news ever.
He said that was my decision to do that and that he is not the same. I am older and have children, but own a home and just graduated from Nursing School. In Nigeria, it is very condescending to eat from the palm of a woman (being sponsored or sort of) and showing it off even when you love her doesn't pass you off as a real man That is just my two cents, you may wanna hear from other people before you come to a conclusion Hello, and thank you. However, he does have a BS already, but is not using it because he found another desire which is nursing. He has met my family, mother children, everyone that means something to me. They don't know who I am, they think we are just friends. He told me that everything must be done in an orderly fashion and that it is not time yet to meet his family even though he met mine. Nigeria men are scared of walking down the aisle with a more successful women because we think they wouldn't accord us the necessary 'rights and respects' if they are not "eating from our palm" (sort of)So I think he would come much around if he graduate and finds a decent job, then he would look like the man in charge when he introduces you to his people. The only known problem with African men especially men from Nigeria is that they are often intimidated by a more successful female partner.I know he loves me, he makes that clear in the way he treats my children and I. He knew when he approached me that I was 9 years older and he didn't go running...by the way, if we were to get married, both of us would be taking care of the expense.He works two jobs....that's to the person who mentioned I would pay for it.since that is your choice and his choice you got nothing to fear, but the other fact is that,he hasnt taken you to see his parents, hmmm that signals troubles but dont lack faith, just lock up tight and do your best neesha holy this is weird, it is dead drop it is your choice and you live your life any how you want it.